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Sep 21
2010
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My 10 year high school reunion is this weekend, and I’ll be honest, it is not without some hesitation that I bit the bullet, shelled out the $80 for two tickets, and booked a hotel near the venue. It isn’t that I didn’t like high school, or that I anticipate being harassed in some sort of Carrie-esque fashion from guys who just didn’t get their fill of bullying a decade ago. The real truth is that I’m busy, I don’t stay in touch with anyone from my high school, and frankly, there are just better ways I can imagine spending my Saturday evening.
But, I took the plunge, and am awaiting not without some degree of anticipation the event this weekend. So why am I going? I blame LinkedIn. After relocating to Atlanta, where I went to school, I had no friendships remaining from those years. No hard feelings or anything, I’m just terrible at keeping up with people, and my life had taken me around the world, not the most conducive to staying in touch. As an Atlanta native, I’m not without a great network here of leaders of different industries, and I attend networking functions on a very regular basis. I love networking, I love growing our business and brand in the community. The truth is though, out of all those events, if even 1 in 10 directly yielded a new piece of business, I’d be writing this blog from the deck of my yacht, not the waiting room of a Jiffy Lube.
Social media, however, has brought me a much higher return on my time invested in networking. An email, retweet, or status update brings more traffic to my personal blogs and company site than a month’s worth of networking events, and that traffic brings business. Everyone loves to help a friend; everyone loves to spend their money with someone they trust. Even a second degree network connection carries more trust than a cold call or email. If someone from my network reaches out to ask for assistance, I can be certain that if I can’t help them, I know someone who can, and that connectivity turns into business opportunities on a very regular basis.
It isn’t about the business though, it is about the network. Growing your business is the pleasant side effect of growing your network. Growing your network means building relationships with people. Those relationships bring you opportunities to help others, to ask for help from others, and to be exposed to opportunities that would otherwise go by unnoticed. That’s why I’m going to my reunion. I don’t want to go work the room like the hungry salesman you see at so many networking events. I want to go to reconnect with my friends, to tell stories of the past, and meet the new members of my classmates’ families. I want to hear about their businesses, and ask about their parents. I want to bring them back in to my network, not because of the business it will bring, but because every friendship is an opportunity to grow as a person, to help others, and to meet even more new people. Will business engagements come out of the event? I think so, but that isn’t the objective.
Just as social media is an excellent resource, social events are a powerful tool for expanding your network. Rest assured though, if your interest in social media or networking is purely for self-promotion and sales, every savvy media consumer will see through your game, and you will close more doors than you ever could open. Be genuine, be interested, and be committed to helping your connections to grow their business; everything else will fall into place.


